"One is happy as a result of one's own efforts once one knows the necessary ingredients of happiness: simple tastes, a certain degree of courage, self-denial and to a point, love of work, and above all, a clear conscience."
Part of working on yourself is learning how to support another person in being the best they can be. Partners are meant to help each other access the highest parts within themselves.
Make others the focal point.
Give generously,
listen intently,
praise freely,
and love unceasingly
Take the spotlight off yourself
and shine it on others.